I know you didn't mean it when you say it, but the comment you made really broke my heart.

I am upset when you said: "我已经很迁就你了，你要做什么就做什么，这样还不够啊？ "

And " 为什么你好像是做戏给别人看？"

I want a special wedding, I know I have a lot of ideas, and I know I am now putting up a show. You are not comfortable with it, but to make me happy, you just take it and keep it to yourself.

You always tell me our ROM is not dinner, the hidden meaning is don't make it so complicated, keep it simple and low key.

We will not held any wedding dinner in future, why can't I make my ROM unique and special, so at least I have a good memory.

I just want to have a special, unique and extra-ordinary memory! I want a perfect & unique ROM/wedding.

I hate being a perfectionist!